Sexual Response

SEX TIPS

2006-04-23T15:03:00.000-07:00

Sex is not only penetration and cumming. It would be correct to highlight that sex does not begin with the man penetrating a woman. This is only one part of all the sex ritual. The sexual practice begins with a smile, a certain kind of look, a gentile gesture and all kind of behavior we pass onto some other person with the intend of being noted as a sexual active person, capable of providing sexual pleasure.
The first practical task, when the issue is sex, is called foreplay. This word designs everything a couple can do in sex time, except penetration. Foreplay is about arousing your partner by many ways, like for example, rubbing and stroking genitals, while slowly letting your tongue to explore his/or her mouth. Biting the lips a little bit may turn highly exciting for some people. Caress on the head/hair/neck is also a good tip. Some women are very sensitive in the center of the breast (nipples), so to find that out, try to, softly hand this area and fingering it around, very slowly. See the corporal responses regarding your acts. If the result is positive; if you realize she likes to be touched and caressed on the nipples, make out of this a positive and registered point of your exploration for some future use. Do not ever stop exploring. Along with all the handing, it would be nice to make your mouth a useful tool, as well. Until now, it works for both, men and women. The female genital requires a little bit more of patience than the male one. Women often complain about the fact that men find it hard to know where the clitoris is embedded. It is not that hard: despite women differing from each other, as it’s basically placed on the upper part of the inner labia. This special female spot, if stroked with kindness and subtleness can provoke the most intense feelings on its owner. The tip, as far as the clitoris goes is to learn by probing and gauging reactions as of the woman you are touching like: slowly, gently, faster, stronger, and so it goes. The vagina does not summarize itself in the clitoris. There is also the vulva (where men penetrate). The first five centimeters are more sensitive than the deeper ones. Try to concentrate on this area (female G-Spot for one is placed on this area). This way, it would be smart to finger the clitoris and insert another one in the entrance of the vagina.

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Making Safer Sex Fun

2006-02-08T10:42:00.000-08:00

Sex In The 21st Century... Experiment sex with a wide range of style and varieties. The trying is almost as fun as the finding!

For many, safer sex has become a chore, something that you do so you don’t suffer the consequences. The portrayal of safer sex in the media is often sterile, almost medical. We are bombarded with images and advice about safer sex. Condom companies market their products on television, AIDS activists make us fear for our lives (and rightly so!) and news stories tell us about the ever increasing number of unwanted pregnancies. The fact that many of us have to change our behavior is quite clear; sex can be dangerous in certain ways with certain people. But wait a minute, sex is supposed to be fun, to be a means of expressing love, and of sharing in one another. Well, sex can still be fun, it just has to be practiced in a newfangled way. Hopefully some of the suggestions below will help you to learn some new tricks to being safe and having pleasurable, satisfying sex.
The condom is the most widely used method for safer sex. Although the condom is one of the best ways to protect against several STDs, many men and women complain that the condom tends to ‘dull the feeling’, making sex less pleasurable. Well, you’re going to have to live with a little reduction in sensation, because latex does act to cover the nerves that produce pleasure on the penis, and alter the feeling of the penis in the vagina for the woman. However, all is not lost - there are ways to increase sensation for you and your partner when wearing a condom. The first recommendation we would have is to try using Crown Condoms. Manufactured by Okamoto, the known and trusted makers of Beyond Seven, Crown Condoms are not only the world's thinnest condom, but also a reliable and safe alternative to the standard condoms available at local drugstores.

Stress and fatigue

2006-01-24T09:23:00.000-08:00

It may be difficult to engage in sexual activity when unresolved conflicts persist. Any negative feelings toward your partner may be incompatible with the prospect of sexual intimacy which decreases your level of arousal.

Perhaps the leading cause of lost sexual desire is stress and fatigue. Most often, the condition is temporary and returns when the stressful period ends, or the person is able to get appropriate rest.
Stress compounds relationship issues as one partner is not able to devote an appropriate amount of energy to their partner. Couples need to take make time to spend in a relatively stress-free environment. Take a romantic vacation or perhaps just send the kids to your parents house for the night. If you're looking for something to enjoy with your lover, the Kama Sutra Massage Therapy Kit is a wonderful item. It contains all the items you'll need to massage the stress away. In today's hectic lifestyle, often couples don't spend enough time relaxing together. Start with one evening together. You'll be surprised at how your libido comes racing back.
Sex can arouse a lot of anxiety in some people who are unsure of themselves or fear humiliation. For someone who has never had sex or has had a bad experience with sex, the anxiety level can be overwhelming. One may fear that they will not be able to become aroused or excited and fail their partner. Alternatively, one might fear the consequences of sexual activity (pregnancy or STDs). Fear of the sexual situation because of failure or negative consequences can decrease their interest in sexual activity.

Simple techniques to take the stress out of sex

2005-12-26T00:46:00.000-08:00

A relaxing and calm atmosphere is a good way to relieve anxiety and stress.

For many couples one of the limitations of their lovemaking is the health concerns of one or both of the partners. With a little bit of creativity in the bedroom most of these concerns can be overcome. You must examine your preconceptions about what lovemaking is. As we age, lovemaking may become a more intimate experience with a new emphasis placed on hugging, kissing and most importantly, communication.
Sex after a heart attack or other illness may require you to abstain from sex and all activities which cause exertion for some time. Always ask your doctor when it is safe to return to lovemaking. He or she may suggest that you practice less strenuous positions, and reduce the overall level of physical strain during intercourse. Tiredness and fatigue during sex may also cause interruptions in love making. The following are a few tips to help you make sex less stressful.
You may wish to create a serene mood with relaxing music and dimmed lights. If it is a room that has been used to nurse or care for an ill partner, move to a different room or change the décor slightly. A different environment can also help to break the routine and add a welcome twist to lovemaking.

Loss of Sexual Desire

2005-12-16T11:46:00.000-08:00

What can I do about loss of sexual desire?
There are some products that have been specifically designed to increase your sexual arousal during the act itself. If you have sexual problems, there are a lot of thing you can do!!

If you have experienced loss of desire for only a short time, it may take care of itself. Getting out of stressful or anxious situations may also alleviate the condition. Try to think about what the cause may be for you personally. It could be your partner, your environment, or a number of other factors listed below. If the loss of desire persists, ask your doctor to refer you to a sex therapist who can help.
There are a number of things that you can try on your own to help increase your libido and get you thinking sexy again. Many people shy away from sex toys because they think that they're unnatural or awkward, however they help a lot of people to start taking care of themselves sexually. With or without a partner, sex toys can help you find new and exciting ways of pleasuring yourself and break up stagnant sexual routines which can squelch your libido. Other things that you can try to liven things up are adult videos and books. Despite the reputation of this type of material, there are actually a lot of high quality videos and books that are designed to arouse, teach you new techniques and even help you with sexual problems.
I.D. Pleasure is a high-market lubricant containing L-Arginine. L-Arginine is a non-essential amino acid which, through clinical testing, has been shown to enhance sexual arousal in both men and women. When ID Pleasure is applied to the clitoris, vaginal walls or penis for lubrication the L-Arginine will increase the blood flow to the region, heightening sensitivity. Heightened sensitivity, in turn, naturally results in a greater responsiveness to sexual stimulation. You can also try the Wet Pheromone Formula. Pheromones are air-borne substances released by humans that many scientists believe are involved in sex drive.

How to change the ritual

2005-11-18T03:34:00.000-08:00

Many couples would make love before they went to bed because it was simply the only time they had... you can change this!!!

Often couples who have enjoyed sex over the course of their lives have developed a sexual routine. When sexual excitement begins to wane, it may be a time to reexamine the ritual. You may choose to introduce new techniques or props into your lovemaking ritual to get some of the spark back.
Many couples experiment with a vibrator or adult toy. These once taboo items are now becoming a part of mainstream adult sexuality. They allow partners to relax as they provide intense stimulation. A couple looking to introduce a vibrator should try the Diving Dolphin - a blue vibrator worn by a man but experienced by both partners. If you're looking for something especially for women, try the Rabbit Pearl. This vibrator, featured on Sex and the City, is incredible. It provides intense vaginal and clitoral stimulation. You won't find a better vibe.